Reneé Rapp Declares: ‘I’m Really F-cking Stubborn and Very Defiant’ in Candid New Interview…read more…
In a no-holds-barred new interview, rising pop star and actress Reneé Rapp opened up about her fierce independence, creative process, and what drives her passion in both music and acting. Known for her unfiltered honesty and fierce stage presence, Rapp didn’t hold back when asked about her personality, declaring, “I’m really f-cking stubborn and very defiant.” Her words, delivered with characteristic intensity, gave fans a deeper look at the mindset behind one of entertainment’s most captivating young talents.
At just 24, Rapp has already carved out a unique space in Hollywood and the music world. From her breakout role as Regina George in Broadway’s Mean Girls to her critically acclaimed debut album Snow Angel, the North Carolina native has proven that she’s more than just another industry newcomer. She’s a force of nature—and she knows it.
In the interview, Rapp shared that her defiance has often been both a strength and a challenge. “I’ve been this way since I was a kid,” she admitted. “It’s helped me survive in a lot of spaces that weren’t built for someone like me, especially when I was younger and trying to be taken seriously in rooms full of men.”
That sense of resolve has driven much of her career. Whether pushing back on industry pressure to conform to pop stereotypes or demanding creative control over her music, Rapp said she’s learned that standing her ground is non-negotiable. “I don’t like being told what to do. That’s not where I thrive,” she added. “I need to have the freedom to mess up on my own terms.”
Despite the bravado, there’s a vulnerability beneath the surface. Rapp acknowledged that being headstrong has sometimes come at the cost of connection. “There are times I’ve isolated myself without meaning to. I can be hard to reach emotionally. But that’s something I’m working on—learning to let people in.”
The singer also touched on her relationship with social media, calling it a “blessing and a curse.” While she appreciates the platform it gives her to connect with fans, Rapp says she often feels suffocated by the scrutiny. “People think they know you just because you post a 10-second video. But I’m way more complicated than what you see online,” she explained. “I have bad days. I get depressed. I doubt myself. I’m just not always going to share that publicly.”
Still, Rapp embraces her role as a voice for young women navigating identity, mental health, and empowerment. Her lyrics—often raw, confessional, and bold—reflect a commitment to honesty that’s become central to her appeal. Songs like “Pretty Girls” and “Talk Too Much” tackle the messy complexity of modern relationships and self-worth, resonating with a generation hungry for authenticity.
“Writing songs is therapy for me,” Rapp said. “It’s the one place where I can be completely unfiltered. I’m not worried about being liked or sounding perfect—I just want to tell the truth.”
That truth-telling has earned her a devoted fanbase, many of whom see themselves in her. For Rapp, that’s the greatest reward. “I get messages from girls saying they feel seen because of something I wrote, and that’s what keeps me going. That connection is everything.”
Outside of music, Rapp has continued to flex her acting chops, most recently starring as Leighton Murray in the HBO Max series The Sex Lives of College Girls. Playing a closeted queer college student struggling with identity, Rapp brought nuance and relatability to the role—one that mirrored parts of her own life. In 2022, she came out as bisexual and has since become an outspoken advocate for LGBTQ+ rights.
“I spent years pretending to be someone I wasn’t,” she said. “Now I’m finally getting comfortable in my own skin. But that’s still a process. I’m learning how to be kind to myself, how to stop apologizing for taking up space.”
When asked about her future, Rapp remained as defiant as ever. “I want to do it all,” she said with a smile. “Act, sing, write, direct—why not? I’m not going to put limits on myself just because someone else thinks I should.”
Her ambition is palpable, but so is her self-awareness. “I know I’m not easy. I know I’m intense. But I also know I’m talented, and I care deeply about my work. That combination has gotten me this far, and it’s going to keep pushing me forward.”
As Reneé Rapp prepares to embark on her next tour and gears up for new music, she remains unapologetically herself—stubborn, defiant, and completely unstoppable. Her journey is far from over, but one thing’s clear: she’s calling the shots.
“I’m not interested in being anyone’s idea of perfect,” she concluded. “I just want to be re
al. That’s enough for me.”
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